build: update rules_nodejs and clean up bazel warnings (#30370)

Preserve compatibility with rollup_bundle rule.
Add missing npm dependencies, which are now enforced by the strict_deps plugin in tsc_wrapped

PR Close #30370

packages/compiler-cli/ngcc/test/helpers/BUILD.bazel

@@ -12,5 +12,6 @@ ts_library(
         "//packages/compiler-cli/ngcc",
         "//packages/compiler-cli/src/ngtsc/path",
         "//packages/compiler-cli/src/ngtsc/testing",
+        "@npm//typescript",
     ],
 )