build: update rules_nodejs and clean up bazel warnings (#30370)

Preserve compatibility with rollup_bundle rule.
Add missing npm dependencies, which are now enforced by the strict_deps plugin in tsc_wrapped

PR Close #30370

packages/core/schematics/migrations/static-queries/BUILD.bazel

@@ -13,6 +13,7 @@ ts_library(
         "//packages/compiler",
         "//packages/compiler-cli",
         "//packages/core/schematics/utils",
+        "@npm//@angular-devkit/core",
         "@npm//@angular-devkit/schematics",
         "@npm//@types/node",
         "@npm//rxjs",