build: update rules_nodejs and clean up bazel warnings (#30370)

Preserve compatibility with rollup_bundle rule.
Add missing npm dependencies, which are now enforced by the strict_deps plugin in tsc_wrapped

PR Close #30370

tools/size-tracking/BUILD.bazel

@@ -12,6 +12,8 @@ ts_library(
     deps = [
         "@npm//@types/node",
         "@npm//@types/source-map",
+        "@npm//chalk",
+        "@npm//source-map",
     ],
 )
 
@@ -21,7 +23,7 @@ ts_library(
     srcs = glob(["**/*_spec.ts"]),
     deps = [
         ":size-tracking",
-        "@npm//@types/source-map",
+        "@npm//source-map",
     ],
 )
 

tools/ts-api-guardian/BUILD.bazel

@@ -1,9 +1,6 @@
 # BEGIN-INTERNAL
-load(
-    "@build_bazel_rules_nodejs//:defs.bzl",
-    "jasmine_node_test",
-    "npm_package",
-)
+load("@build_bazel_rules_nodejs//:defs.bzl", "npm_package")
+load("@npm_bazel_jasmine//:index.bzl", "jasmine_node_test")
 load("@npm_bazel_typescript//:index.bzl", "ts_library")
 
 ts_library(