build: upgrade to rules_nodejs 1.0.0 (first stable release) (#34589)

Brings in the fix for stamping which was preventing many targets from getting cached.

PR Close #34589

packages/core/BUILD.bazel

@@ -30,7 +30,7 @@ ng_package(
         "//packages/core/testing:package.json",
     ],
     entry_point = ":index.ts",
-    packages = [
+    nested_packages = [
         "//packages/core/schematics:npm_package",
     ],
     tags = [

packages/core/schematics/BUILD.bazel

@@ -1,11 +1,11 @@
-load("//tools:defaults.bzl", "npm_package")
+load("//tools:defaults.bzl", "pkg_npm")
 
 exports_files([
     "tsconfig.json",
     "migrations.json",
 ])
 
-npm_package(
+pkg_npm(
     name = "npm_package",
     srcs = ["migrations.json"],
     visibility = ["//packages/core:__pkg__"],