fix(dev-infra): prep ts-circular-deps to load via node_modules (#36165)

to run ts-circular-deps via installed node_modules, we needed to set
the hashbang of the script to be a node environment, and discover the
project directory based on where the script is run rather than the
scripts file location.

PR Close #36165

dev-infra/ts-circular-dependencies/BUILD.bazel

@@ -6,6 +6,7 @@ ts_library(
     module_name = "@angular/dev-infra-private/ts-circular-dependencies",
     visibility = ["//dev-infra:__subpackages__"],
     deps = [
+        "//dev-infra/utils:config",
         "@npm//@types/glob",
         "@npm//@types/node",
         "@npm//@types/yargs",