test: fix several Bazel compiler tests in windows (#30146)

```
//packages/compiler-cli/test:ngc
//packages/compiler/test:test
```

This also address `node_modules` to the ignored paths for ngc compiler as otherwise the `ready` is never fired

Partially addresses #29785

PR Close #30146

packages/compiler-cli/src/perform_watch.ts

@@ -70,7 +70,7 @@ export function createPerformWatchHost(
       const watcher = chokidar.watch(options.basePath, {
         // ignore .dotfiles, .js and .map files.
         // can't ignore other files as we e.g. want to recompile if an `.html` file changes as well.
-        ignored: /((^[\/\\])\..)|(\.js$)|(\.map$)|(\.metadata\.json)/,
+        ignored: /((^[\/\\])\..)|(\.js$)|(\.map$)|(\.metadata\.json|node_modules)/,
         ignoreInitial: true,
         persistent: true,
       });