fix(ivy): queries should match elements inside ng-container with the descendants: false option (#35384)

Before this change content queries with the `descendants: false` option, as implemented in ivy,
would not descendinto `<ng-container>` elements. This behaviour was different from the way the
View Engine worked. This change alligns ngIvy and VE behaviours when it comes to queries and the
`<ng-container>` elements and fixes a common bugs where a query target was placed inside the
`<ng-container>` element with a * directive on it.

Before:

```html
<needs-target>
  <ng-container *ngIf="condition">
    <div #target>...</div>  <!-- this node would NOT match -->
  </ng-container>
</needs-target>
```

After:

```html
<needs-target>
  <ng-container *ngIf="condition">
    <div #target>...</div>  <!-- this node WILL match -->
  </ng-container>
</needs-target>
```

Fixes #34768

PR Close #35384

aio/scripts/_payload-limits.json

@@ -26,4 +26,4 @@
       }
     }
   }
-}
+}