build: update yarn to v1.13.0 (#28546)

Currently our version of Yarn is installed through
the "circleci/node" docker image. This is problematic
because in order to be able to update Yarn, we always
need to update the docker image to a version that
comes with the desired Yarn version. Sometimes there
is no docker image with the desired latest Yarn version,
and therefore we cannot easily update the Yarn version.

Additionally updating the docker image also means that
we need to update our version of NodeJS, as well as the
version of `openssl` might have changed (meaning that
our encrypted credential files may not be decodable with
the new version of `openssl`)

PR Close #28546

aio/package.json

@@ -73,7 +73,7 @@
   },
   "engines": {
     "node": ">=10.9.0 <11.0.0",
-    "yarn": ">=1.10.1 <1.14.0"
+    "yarn": ">=1.12.1 <=1.14.0"
   },
   "private": true,
   "dependencies": {