build: upgrade to rules_nodejs 1.0.0 (first stable release) (#34736)

Brings in the fix for stamping which was preventing many targets from getting cached.

PR Close #34736

packages/compiler-cli/BUILD.bazel

@@ -1,6 +1,6 @@
 package(default_visibility = ["//visibility:public"])
 
-load("//tools:defaults.bzl", "npm_package", "ts_library")
+load("//tools:defaults.bzl", "pkg_npm", "ts_library")
 load("@npm_bazel_typescript//:index.bzl", "ts_config")
 
 ts_config(
@@ -53,7 +53,7 @@ ts_library(
     ],
 )
 
-npm_package(
+pkg_npm(
     name = "npm_package",
     srcs = [
         "package.json",