refactor: handle breaking changes in rules_nodejs 1.0.0 (#34736)

The major one that affects the angular repo is the removal of the bootstrap attribute in nodejs_binary, nodejs_test and jasmine_node_test in favor of using templated_args --node_options=--require=/path/to/script. The side-effect of this is that the bootstrap script does not get the require.resolve patches with explicitly loading the targets _loader.js file.

PR Close #34736

packages/compiler-cli/test/compliance/BUILD.bazel

@@ -18,7 +18,6 @@ ts_library(
 
 jasmine_node_test(
     name = "compliance",
-    bootstrap = ["angular/tools/testing/init_node_no_angular_spec.js"],
     data = [
         "//packages/compiler-cli/test/ngtsc/fake_core:npm_package",
     ],
@@ -26,8 +25,9 @@ jasmine_node_test(
     tags = [
         "ivy-only",
     ],
+    templated_args = ["--node_options=--require=$(rlocation $(location //tools/testing:node_no_angular_es5))"],
     deps = [
         ":test_lib",
-        "//tools/testing:node_no_angular",
+        "//tools/testing:node_no_angular_es5",
     ],
 )