build: upgrade to rules_nodejs 1.0.0 (first stable release) (#34736)

Brings in the fix for stamping which was preventing many targets from getting cached.

PR Close #34736

packages/elements/BUILD.bazel

@@ -24,7 +24,7 @@ ng_package(
         "**/package.json",
     ]),
     entry_point = ":index.ts",
-    packages = [
+    nested_packages = [
         "//packages/elements/schematics:npm_package",
     ],
     tags = [

packages/elements/schematics/BUILD.bazel

@@ -1,4 +1,4 @@
-load("//tools:defaults.bzl", "npm_package")
+load("//tools:defaults.bzl", "pkg_npm")
 
 package(default_visibility = ["//visibility:public"])
 
@@ -15,7 +15,7 @@ genrule(
     output_to_bindir = 1,
 )
 
-npm_package(
+pkg_npm(
     name = "npm_package",
     srcs = [
         "collection.json",