build: upgrade to rules_nodejs 1.0.0 (first stable release) (#34736)

Brings in the fix for stamping which was preventing many targets from getting cached.

PR Close #34736

packages/language-service/BUILD.bazel

@@ -1,4 +1,4 @@
-load("//tools:defaults.bzl", "npm_package", "ts_library")
+load("//tools:defaults.bzl", "pkg_npm", "ts_library")
 
 package(default_visibility = ["//visibility:public"])
 
@@ -20,7 +20,7 @@ ts_library(
     ],
 )
 
-npm_package(
+pkg_npm(
     name = "npm_package",
     srcs = ["package.json"],
     tags = [