refactor: handle breaking changes in rules_nodejs 1.0.0 (#34736)

The major one that affects the angular repo is the removal of the bootstrap attribute in nodejs_binary, nodejs_test and jasmine_node_test in favor of using templated_args --node_options=--require=/path/to/script. The side-effect of this is that the bootstrap script does not get the require.resolve patches with explicitly loading the targets _loader.js file.

PR Close #34736

packages/compiler/test/css_parser/BUILD.bazel

@@ -16,10 +16,11 @@ ts_library(
 
 jasmine_node_test(
     name = "css_parser",
-    bootstrap = ["angular/tools/testing/init_node_spec.js"],
+    templated_args = ["--node_options=--require=$(rlocation $(location //tools/testing:node_es5))"],
     deps = [
         ":css_parser_lib",
         "//tools/testing:node",
+        "//tools/testing:node_es5",
     ],
 )