refactor: handle breaking changes in rules_nodejs 1.0.0 (#34736)

The major one that affects the angular repo is the removal of the bootstrap attribute in nodejs_binary, nodejs_test and jasmine_node_test in favor of using templated_args --node_options=--require=/path/to/script. The side-effect of this is that the bootstrap script does not get the require.resolve patches with explicitly loading the targets _loader.js file.

PR Close #34736

packages/compiler-cli/test/ngtsc/BUILD.bazel

@@ -23,14 +23,14 @@ ts_library(
 jasmine_node_test(
     name = "ngtsc",
     timeout = "long",
-    bootstrap = ["angular/tools/testing/init_node_no_angular_spec.js"],
     data = [
         "//packages/compiler-cli/test/ngtsc/fake_core:npm_package",
     ],
     shard_count = 4,
+    templated_args = ["--node_options=--require=$(rlocation $(location //tools/testing:node_no_angular_es5))"],
     deps = [
         ":ngtsc_lib",
-        "//tools/testing:node_no_angular",
+        "//tools/testing:node_no_angular_es5",
         "@npm//minimist",
     ],
 )