refactor: handle breaking changes in rules_nodejs 1.0.0 (#34736)

The major one that affects the angular repo is the removal of the bootstrap attribute in nodejs_binary, nodejs_test and jasmine_node_test in favor of using templated_args --node_options=--require=/path/to/script. The side-effect of this is that the bootstrap script does not get the require.resolve patches with explicitly loading the targets _loader.js file.

PR Close #34736

packages/compiler-cli/test/transformers/BUILD.bazel

@@ -19,7 +19,6 @@ ts_library(
 jasmine_node_test(
     name = "test",
     timeout = "long",  # 900 seconds
-    bootstrap = ["angular/tools/testing/init_node_spec.js"],
     data = [
         "//packages/common:npm_package",
         "//packages/core:npm_package",
@@ -30,10 +29,12 @@ jasmine_node_test(
         # of these transformer utilities.
         "no-ivy-aot",
     ],
+    templated_args = ["--node_options=--require=$(rlocation $(location //tools/testing:node_es5))"],
     deps = [
         ":test_lib",
         "//packages/core",
         "//tools/testing:node",
+        "//tools/testing:node_es5",
         "@npm//source-map",
     ],
 )