refactor: handle breaking changes in rules_nodejs 1.0.0 (#34736)

The major one that affects the angular repo is the removal of the bootstrap attribute in nodejs_binary, nodejs_test and jasmine_node_test in favor of using templated_args --node_options=--require=/path/to/script. The side-effect of this is that the bootstrap script does not get the require.resolve patches with explicitly loading the targets _loader.js file.

PR Close #34736

packages/core/test/render3/BUILD.bazel

@@ -61,10 +61,10 @@ ts_library(
 
 jasmine_node_test(
     name = "render3",
-    bootstrap = [
-        "angular/packages/core/test/render3/load_domino",
-    ],
+    templated_args = ["--node_options=--require=$(rlocation $(location :domino_es5))"],
     deps = [
+        ":domino",
+        ":domino_es5",
         ":render3_node_lib",
         "//packages/zone.js/lib",
     ],