build: only stamp version info when releasing (#27362)

Also build releases into a dedicated output_base so you can't
accidentally publish with outdated version stamp.

Bump the version of rules_nodejs so we don't need to create the
symlink_prefixes for the .publish command to work.

PR Close #27362

.bazelrc

@@ -30,10 +30,12 @@ test --nolegacy_external_runfiles
 
 ###############################
 # Release support             #
+# Turn on these settings with #
+#  --config=release           #
 ###############################
 
 # Releases should always be stamped with version control info
-build --workspace_status_command=./tools/bazel_stamp_vars.sh
+build:release --workspace_status_command=./tools/bazel_stamp_vars.sh
 
 ###############################
 # Output                      #